Need advice

[rhiannon]

I need advice on how to get rid of a guy who is being a nuisance and can't take a hint. I figured if I didn't answer this guy's emails he would stop bothering me. I just deleted a guestbook entry and sure as heck won't tell him where I work or give him my address. He's someone I knew in college. I cut my ties with him, but he won't leave me alone.

Ironically, it seems like Karma is biting me in the behind. So what would you do to get rid of someone you don't want bothering you. I even tried an email filter. It didn't work.

Thanks.

[Paladin]

Guys need bluntness and a very direct approach. Don't worry so much about hurting his feelings (without being rude, of course ). Tell him very clearly that you're not interested in him and you would appreciate it if he would stop contacting you. He'll be okay, and his buddies will give him the "other fish in the sea" speech. If he persists afterwards, that's a whole new issue.

[rhiannon]

That's the only problem, he doesn't have any buddies unless you count someone I talked him out of moving in with. That same person I talked Greg out of moving in with never met me but hates me with a passion--which still boggles the mind. But you're right direct approach works best. Just hope he wises up.

Thanks Paladin.