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Post by Hinata on Aug 2, 2005 11:07:22 GMT -5
yeah. . .rushing isn't exactly my forete  . . .I really don't want to get married for a while longer. . .at least another year or so. . .why rush getting rid of the single life that is so much fun in college.  |
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Post by Dred on Aug 2, 2005 11:19:45 GMT -5
I figured you both were goofing around.
If it's meant to be, it will happen. Not something to rush into by any means. Enjoy your time as a single and get to know him. If he's the one, it will all work out on it's own.
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Post by Hinata on Aug 2, 2005 11:23:15 GMT -5
The Lord's timing, not my own. . .why can't things run on my time table sometimes |
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Post by Dred on Aug 2, 2005 11:40:08 GMT -5
I've often wondered that as well. It's amazing but when I've really let go and turned things over to God, things happen. It's so difficult to totally let go but it has been known to work.
Best wishes.
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Post by Hinata on Aug 2, 2005 22:17:02 GMT -5
thanks, I don't know if it'll work out now because his grandmother just passed away today . . . I'm worried about him, I texted him a few minutes ago and he just say "Thank you very much. I loved her a lot"
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Post by Dred on Aug 2, 2005 22:25:18 GMT -5
Just be patient and let God work here. Do what you would normally do for someone you know who has lost someone close. Just being there for him will mean a lot.
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Post by Hinata on Aug 3, 2005 0:22:13 GMT -5
yeah. . .I'm trying to be there for him. . .but it's hard to really be there for him when I don't have much a place yet  |
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Post by Dred on Aug 3, 2005 6:22:10 GMT -5
I know it's hard. It'll all work out for the best in the long run. God may be testing your patience right now in this situation. Trying to see where you will put your faith.
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Post by DanTheMan on Aug 3, 2005 6:31:41 GMT -5
Dred gives good advice. And you obviously do have a place with him, at least as a friend. It's good to be friends, in addition to anything else romantic that might happen. Being there for him will show you care. Just do what you can, without being too pushy.
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Post by Hinata on Aug 3, 2005 12:02:34 GMT -5
*nods* I'm worried about him. . . I truly hope he's okay because last night was very weird. . .
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Post by Dred on Aug 3, 2005 15:21:56 GMT -5
I would recommend praying for him and his family. It's a very difficult time and they will need all the support they can get. Things may be weird for a while as he tries to adjust to what has taken place. Just be there as you can for him.
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Post by Hinata on Aug 4, 2005 0:37:46 GMT -5
I'm not so worried about him now. . .he seemed okay today when I was texting him about the new issue in my life. . .the never ending drama. . .
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Post by Untainted on Aug 4, 2005 5:30:56 GMT -5
As far as guys not liking girls to do the asking...guess it depends on the guy... and heres a tip....MEN LIKE FOOD!!!!
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Post by Dred on Aug 4, 2005 7:01:40 GMT -5
I'm glad things seem ok for him. Sorry about the never ending drama in your life.
I pray that things continue to move forward comfortably for you both.
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Post by DanTheMan on Aug 4, 2005 10:46:15 GMT -5
Life wouldn't be fun without a never-ending drama! Hope things are going better today! |
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. . .I really don't want to get married for a while longer. . .at least another year or so. . .why rush getting rid of the single life that is so much fun in college. 
